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“America as a Civilization” Max Lerner

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

“A number of recent American writings indicate that the nostalgia for the small town need not be construed as directed toward the town itself: it is rather a ‘quest for community ‘ (as Robert Nisbet puts it) – a nostalgia for a compassable and integral living unit.  The critical question is not whether the small town can be rehabilitated in the image of its earlier strength and growth – for clearly it cannot – but whether American life will be able to evolve any other integral community to replace it.  This is what I call the problem of place in America, and unless it is somehow resolved, American life will become more jangled and fragmented than it is, and American personality will continue to be unquiet and unfulfilled.”

Lerner, Max.  ”America as a Civilization”

 

Quotation taken from the beginning of “Chapter One: The Problem of Place in America” in Ray Oldenburg’s “The Great Good Place”

The Character of Third Places: “The Character of Third Places”

Friday, December 31st, 2010

“The conversational superiority of the third place is also evident in the harm that the bore can there inflict. Those who carry the despicable reputation of being a bore have not earned it at home or at the work setting proper, but almost exclusively in those places given to sociability. Where people expect more of conversation they are accordingly repulsed by those who abuse it, whether by killing a topic with inappropriate remarks or by talking more than their share of the time. Characteristically, bores talk more loudly than others, substituting both volume and verbosity for wit and substance. Their failure at getting the effect they desire only seems to increase their demands upon the patience of the group. Conversation is a lively game, but the bore hogs the ball, unable to score but unwilling to pass it to others.”

Oldenburg, Ray. The Character of Third Places. “The Character of Third Places”